How Long Does it Take?

So, just how long exactly does it take to "get over" someone?? I wish there were some friggin' switch you could just flip off.

My ex-husband hurt me so deeply that I think I will loathe him forever. That's how I honestly feel about it. So why the hell did I get upset a couple nights ago when I show up at a concert and he's sitting a couple rows ahead of me hanging all over this skank-ass girlfriend?? Why should I care? Why the hell did it bother me??!! Why couldn't I just say "good riddance to bad rubbish" and look the other way?

I know it's only been 7 months since we decided to split. Only four months since the divorce was official. But those were some really gut-wrenching months, when my total love for him turned to complete disgust, and I really thought I was done with the whole thing and moving on with my life. So it really pissed me off that I was feeling these angry feelings about seeing them there together, angry that it kind of put me in a funk and distracted me from an awesome concert.

Why did that bother me?? I just don't get it. I want to put that all behind me. AARGH!

A Hero

Other than my Aunt Mary, I think this might be the woman I want to be when I get older!!
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